Creating relationships

This is just to let you know that the Sexy Spiritual Relationships site that I announced the other day will launch on July 29 instead. I like that. Tantra is not about rushing. Tantra is not about deadlines. Tantra is about being in the flow wherever it takes you and whenever it takes you there.

Meanwhile they have prepared 800+ articles posted in 23 article categories plus a growing collection of video and audio just to begin with. I’m convinced you will find lots of information, inspiration and help there - starting July 29, 2008.

Mark your calendars and be sure to visit the brand new Sexy Spiritual Relationships website during its launch on July 29.

I presented you for Al and Pala’s work in the post on Tantra. At the new membership website you will find many exciting features and more information than you could possibly use in one lifetime - everything you could ever need to create your own sexy spiritual relationship. Information is grouped into four major categories:

1. Relationship Happiness

2. Enlightenment for Two

3. Super Sex - Kama Sutra

4. Sacred Sex - Tantra and Taoist

I’m impressed by their material and by the way they balance sex and spirituality, body and light, pleasure and love. In a world where both sex and spirituality to one degree or another remain a taboo for most people, Al’s and Pala’s contribution is as rare as it is supportive.

In addition, they are partnering with a number of featured experts and practitioners who offer a wide range of services to assist members to heal, grow personally and professionally, to awaken spiritually, and of course, to create sexy spiritual relationships. I’m one of such experts and you will find me at the website under the menu option “Featured Experts”.

If you are in relationship now, or want to be in relationship in the future, this website is definitely for you. Al and Pala’s mission is to help couples learn how to create love that lasts for a lifetime together. They do this by teaching people how to use their relationship as a spiritual practice, ultimately leading all the way to Enlightenment for Two. The primary form of spiritual practice they teach is sacred sexuality, Tantric and Taoist.

So many people experience a clash between love and relations. It really should be the other way round. You meet someone new, you fall in love, you open up to a deeper experience of love and at some point you want to share it with your relations - you want to bring all your loved ones together. You’re full of positive expectations (or maybe not?), you so much want to enjoy being all together - your new lover and relations in the same room, sharing a meal maybe. You want them to love each other as much as you love each of them. You want harmony.

So when does it go wrong? Is it as you enter your parent’s house and notice your mother observing your beloved from the corner of her eyes while pretending a cheerfulness that you know isn’t genuine? Is it when your lover suddenly becomes defensive when your father starts a discussion on politics? Or is there just this tension in the room, and in you. You know something’s wrong and you don’t know what it is.

Bringing your lover and your relations together means mixing different territories. They didn’t choose each other - you did that for them. You bring them together whether they’re a good fit for each other or not. You want to make them like each other. You don’t really give them a choice. It’s far from a perfect start for a relationship.

Can you bring your love and your relations together and not expect anything specific? Wait and see what comes out of it? Without the pressure they may even get to like each other. Who knows. Or maybe you’ll find out that you don’t need to bring them together very often, or maybe never again.

And you know what? It’s not even about them. It’s about you. If there’s a conflict between your love and your relations, you can be pretty sure there also is a conflict within you. It may not be obvious but it’s there all right. You needing your relations to approve your lover, you needing your lover to approve your relations really means that you have difficulties accepting different aspects of your personality.

Solving the conflict within will eventually help solve the conflict between your love and your relations as well. In case you find it difficult, consider taking advantage of the Fearless Questions and Answers coaching site .

Or, if you’re ready to take a giant step into freedom, Busting Loose From The Emotions Game.

If you have felt that you do have “fearless questions” for me but would prefer a personal conversation with me rather than writing then your wish has just come true. And mine!

It is my great pleasure to announce, that I now offer coaching by phone.

As you may know, I’ve been coaching busting loose students for a while now, but I feel that at this time I am also able to expand my work in other directions, so that those who are not interested in busting loose still can benefit from my insights, experience and inspiration.

I’m looking forward to this new chapter in my life - and maybe
yours. Here’s the link again:
http://www.halinagold.net/fearless/coaching.php

As promised, the Fearless Questions and Answers site is now officially open! In essence it’s a life coaching site - a place where you can ask questions and get profound and unique answers (which is why an expression of appreciation in the form of money is requested).

Eventually, the site will also offer an e-book with a collection of essential life coaching answers. In fact, if you submit a question and it gets accepted, you’ll get the ebook free as soon as it’s published.

Which is why I invite you to join the Fearless Questions and Answers Mailing List here even if you don’t have any question in mind right now.

As a thank you gift you for signing up you will receive a very special story (both fiction and non-fiction) titled: “Where Do You Go? A Story on Preferences, Spirituality and the Golden Path Home”. It is of great value and has the potential to blow your mind and set you on a completely new journey - or create crucial support on the path that you’re on already. It’s just 6 pages - and you may want to read them again and again.

A bit of a background: As a natural consequence of my commitment to the Busting Loose path I have had the pleasure of offering Busting Loose coaching since fall 2006. Recently I realized that it is also possible to share some aspects of the busting loose insights in a broader context, so that those who are not interested in the radical busting loose transformation still can benefit from the busting loose truth and integrate it in their journey.

I’m looking forward to working in a new way and sharing in new journeys!